I haven't been around much this week...I have had a tough one.
I got a letter from my X's lawyer threatening to 'litigate' (ie take me to court) if I didn't agree to relocate back to Australia so that the kids could be near their father. Believe me, I was UPSET.
Last year, My X signed a court agreement allowing the kids to stay with me here indefinitely and now he is doing a total back flip and apparently he has a case...if that was not ALL he has decided that since I have apparently 're-established myself here in New Zealand he was going to keep ALL our joint assets that are currently in the house, OUR HOUSE which he has been living in for the past 2 years. Bl**dy Men, I knew he was going to screw me over.
Its a hump, I know, in the bigger picture of my life but it doesn't make it easier when you are right in the midst of the battle. It feels like my whole world is falling in on me at the moment. Hmmmmm...I don't have much else to say today except bare with me...I need to get my head straight.
(~big sighs~)
I am trying to keep smiling
xx flabuless
8 comments:
As long as you have primary control and authority of your kids he can not make you return to Australia. He's a bit too late for that. Hang in there kiddo!
Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope you kick his butt! You go, Girl!
Can you believe I have something to say here too? Keep your chin up chickie this too shall pass,this trouble is only for a season... You might wanna put spikes on your shoes, if your gonna take teena up on her idea to kick his butt. But if you do, kick butt like a Princess girl and keep your crown firmly on your head!
I think he's spinning you a yarn by telling you 'he has a case', since I highly doubt that any court will void the existing agreement - but I can imagine that it would still be incredibly stressful. Keep your chin up! For your kiddies AND for you!
I stubble upon your blog...I was sadden by your current situation. Just want to tell you that the Lord is about to bless you and give you the desires of your heart. Your X is like a thorn in your side. You need to try to stay focus on your plans, dreams and desire. He too sees the change in your life. He himself is afriad of the next step.
Just a thought but he may be wanting you to relocate because after all you are FLAB U LESS! Trust me I have severe X issues and child issues and I know how tough that can be. There is always a fear in side your head of the worst happening. I hope everything goes well for you during this trying time... Keep your head up!
You hang in there girl! You're a stronger woman than you think.
I know how you feel. My life seems to be like that right now and it is such a rollercoaster. One day up, the next down. But you know what when you come out of this, you are going to be so strong. This is just temporary. Remember that.
Nothing too good or too bad lasts for too long.
Hang in there. Soon you will be free from that situation and the flab!
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